Introduction
Summary of the Book American Savage by Dan Savage Before we proceed, let’s look into a brief overview of the book. Imagine standing at a crossroads where old, dusty ideas face off against today’s vibrant, changing world. On one side, ancient beliefs still whisper that only certain kinds of love are natural, certain people deserve respect, or that following traditions is more important than saving lives. On the other side, new understanding shines a light on facts, fairness, and the importance of compassion. This book invites you to question what you’ve been taught, to recognize that sexuality isn’t a sinful choice, that caring for the sick is a moral duty, and that valuing human life is not exploitation of tragedy. It encourages you to see that progress is possible when we admit mistakes, embrace knowledge, and insist on honesty. Let these pages inspire you to celebrate difference, protect dignity, and create a kinder future.
Chapter 1: Unraveling Ancient Religious Texts Used as Shields for Modern Anti-Gay Hatred.
Imagine standing in a crowded room where people argue about what is right or wrong, and the most powerful voices insist that an old, ancient rulebook backs their claims. In many places across the United States, people still use ancient religious texts, like certain sections of the Bible, to attack and shame those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. They say that their holy scriptures clearly condemn homosexuality, and so they feel free to bully, exclude, and harm people who love differently. But this approach is not only cruel, it’s also deeply hypocritical. The very same old texts they use to condemn gay people also have parts that most modern believers completely ignore—like those that once justified slavery, or rules that demanded stoning women for things no one cares about today. Yet somehow, they pick and choose only the parts that fit their biases.
If you look closer, you’ll see a strange pattern. Many people quoting these old verses to attack gay individuals proudly skip over other outdated rules that no longer make sense in modern life. For example, the Old Testament includes passages that support owning slaves or punishing people for wearing clothing made from certain fabrics. We no longer follow these rules, and most people agree that doing so today would be unfair and ridiculous. This cherry-picking is exactly what makes their anti-gay stance so shaky. They claim that they are following the Bible to the letter when it comes to gay relationships, but ignore its instructions when it comes to other ancient commands that are too harsh or outdated. By clinging to selective verses, they’re not honoring the spirit of love and fairness that many religious traditions encourage.
If we want to be honest, we have to admit that society has changed over thousands of years. Cultures evolve, new knowledge emerges, and our moral understanding grows deeper. Back in the time when these ancient religious texts were written, people did not have the same understanding of human rights or biology that we have now. They had a limited view of life, human relationships, and what it means to be a loving partner. Today, we know that sexual orientation is a natural part of who a person is, not some choice or sin that can be fixed. We also recognize that love between two consenting adults, no matter their gender, can be healthy, beautiful, and enriching for both people involved. We’ve stepped forward, but some still clutch old words to justify discrimination.
It’s time to admit that not every line in an ancient text should guide how we treat people today. We have outgrown many old rules because we now respect women’s rights, reject slavery, and value freedom. Similarly, it’s logical to accept that the world’s understanding of sexuality has grown beyond old prejudices. If faith communities truly want to spread love and empathy, they need to stop using outdated passages as weapons. They should focus instead on kindness, understanding, and fairness. The hypocrisy of clinging to certain verses to attack gay people, while ignoring others that no longer fit our modern moral standards, harms real human beings. As we progress, it becomes clearer that treating LGBTQ individuals with respect and equality honors our best moral and spiritual values, not betrays them.
Chapter 2: Challenging Conventional Ideas: How Extramarital Sex Can Sometimes Preserve Relationships.
We often hear the phrase once a cheater, always a cheater, and many people assume that staying strictly monogamous is the only way to remain happy in a committed relationship. But life is complicated, and human desire can change over time. There are cases where two loving partners find that their sexual needs no longer match. Perhaps one becomes ill and loses interest in intimacy, or years of raising children leaves another partner too exhausted or uninterested in sex. Sometimes, despite all the love and emotional closeness, physical desire fades for one partner while the other still yearns for it. In these delicate situations, some sex advice experts, including Dan Savage, have suggested that carefully and discreetly seeking sexual experiences outside the marriage might actually help preserve the core relationship.
This idea might sound shocking at first. We are raised with stories of pure, forever loyalty, where no one ever has romantic or sexual feelings for anyone else. But real life isn’t a fairy tale. Some people who have followed this advice report that it allowed them to keep their marriage together. Imagine a loving couple who has built a life over decades—sharing finances, raising children, supporting each other through grief, and celebrating countless birthdays. Should this entire structure collapse simply because one partner can no longer or does not wish to engage in intimacy? When approached honestly and with care, allowing one partner to meet their physical needs elsewhere can keep the family stable and both partners happier in their own ways, as long as honesty and respect remain central.
Of course, such arrangements are not for everyone. It requires mutual understanding, trust, and, often, a set of ground rules. Communicating openly and deciding what feels acceptable and what doesn’t is crucial. No one should be forced into an arrangement that makes them feel uncomfortable, unloved, or unsafe. But for those facing a seemingly impossible conflict—where one partner’s desires have faded, and there’s no solution in sight—this unorthodox option might be better than divorce or constant frustration. It can relieve pressure and tension while respecting each other’s emotional well-being. Surprisingly, sometimes when the sexually active partner finds satisfaction elsewhere, the desire can rekindle at home, as the absence of pressure allows the other spouse to feel more relaxed and open to intimacy again.
Beyond the possibility of extramarital arrangements, Savage also promotes the idea of being GGG: good, giving, and game. Being good in bed means considering what your partner truly enjoys, giving means you’re generous with pleasure even if it’s not always immediately returned, and game means you’re willing to try new things—within safe and reasonable limits. This mindset encourages couples to explore each other’s fantasies and communicate openly without shame. Studies suggest that when partners listen to each other’s desires and try to satisfy them, both partners become happier in the long run. While it might feel scary to discuss unusual solutions or new sexual interests, facing these issues honestly is often healthier than leaving them unspoken, where frustrations and resentments silently grow.
Chapter 3: Outdated Church Views and Flawed School Lessons: A Toxic Mix for Sexual Understanding.
Imagine learning about sex only through warnings: scare stories about diseases, lectures on sin, and the insistence that sex is only for making babies. That’s the reality for many people raised in strict religious communities or attending certain public schools in the United States. The Catholic Church, for example, has historically taught that sex should be aimed solely at reproduction. This view ignores the importance of sex in strengthening love, connection, and understanding between consenting adults. At the same time, many American public schools rely on abstinence-only education, telling kids to simply avoid sex until marriage. They rarely teach how to practice safe sex, how to respect consent, or how to enjoy this part of life without shame. This leaves young people frightened, confused, and unprepared for real-world relationships.
Such teachings create a twisted reality. In truth, sexual desire is natural, and people seek intimacy to bond, communicate affection, and experience pleasure. Many believers—even those raised in the Church—support the use of birth control, understand that premarital sex can be normal, and disagree with punishing people for their sexual orientation. Yet official doctrine ignores these changing views. On the school side, presenting sex as only dangerous and sinful doesn’t prevent teens from having it; it only makes them less informed about protecting themselves. When young people have no proper understanding of contraception or consent, they are more likely to face unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases, and unhealthy relationships. Real education means acknowledging what people actually do and giving them tools to stay safe and happy.
Statistics show the failure of abstinence-only teaching. States that emphasize abstinence have the highest rates of teen pregnancies and STDs. If you never tell teens how to use protection, they won’t magically figure it out. They deserve honest, clear, and compassionate guidance. Likewise, demonizing non-reproductive sex as sinful only creates shame and secrecy. Instead of learning how to form respectful, joyful sexual relationships, people grow up feeling guilty or dirty about something that can be a positive part of their lives. This gap between what is taught and what is real creates confusion, leaving people without the knowledge they need when they reach adulthood. Society benefits when we teach that safe, consensual, and pleasurable sex is possible and healthy, rather than pretending these feelings don’t exist.
To move forward, we must acknowledge that sexual education is about more than preventing negative outcomes—it’s about teaching respect, empathy, and responsibility. Understanding boundaries, consent, and emotional needs is just as important as learning about protection and preventing infections. People should be encouraged to talk openly about their desires and fears, and to seek information without judgment. Science backs up these more open approaches. When young adults receive comprehensive sexual education that discusses anatomy, emotions, safety, and respect, they make wiser choices. By recognizing that church teachings on sex often ignore modern knowledge, and that fear-based education only misleads students, we can change the system. Proper guidance empowers young people, helping them grow into adults who treat themselves and others with care and understanding.
Chapter 4: Crumbling Arguments Against Gay Marriage and Same-Sex Parenting: The Illogic of Prejudice.
In many heated debates, people argue that same-sex marriage is unnatural, that children need a mother and a father, and that allowing gay people to marry somehow destroys the meaning of marriage. None of these claims hold up under close examination. Imagine a dinner conversation between a gay rights advocate and someone who opposes gay marriage. The opponent might say that marriage is only for having children, and therefore a union of two men or two women is impossible. But what about married couples who cannot have children, or those who choose not to? Does that make their marriage invalid? This kind of reasoning falls apart because it’s based on narrow ideas that don’t fit the real world, where families come in many loving shapes and sizes.
Some anti-gay activists admit that while they believe divorce is also sinful, they don’t think it should be illegal. Yet they turn around and insist that same-sex marriage must be banned because it’s supposedly not real marriage. This is a glaring contradiction. If people think divorce is morally wrong but shouldn’t be against the law, why should their moral disapproval of gay marriage be treated differently? Their arguments often rely on the idea that gay marriages break some natural law, but they never clearly define what that is. All around us, we see couples—straight and gay—loving, nurturing, and raising children to be healthy, happy adults. Research shows that having two loving parents is what truly matters, not the parents’ genders.
Those who argue against gay parents sometimes claim that children need both a mom and a dad. They say that not providing this traditional setup is harmful or even abusive. Yet countless studies reveal that children of same-sex parents are just as well-adjusted, successful, and emotionally healthy as those raised by opposite-sex parents. What truly matters is parental love, stability, and support. In fact, major child-welfare organizations have publicly stated that gay couples are just as capable of raising children safely and happily. The idea that a same-sex household is somehow less loving or less natural comes from prejudice, not from fact. Children thrive when given care, guidance, and encouragement, and these qualities are found in families of all compositions.
When we look closely, we realize these anti-gay arguments are based on fear and tradition, not evidence. Times change, and our understanding of human relationships changes too. The world no longer relies on outdated religious rules that exclude entire groups of people from basic rights. Society benefits when we recognize that love, kindness, and commitment are possible in all kinds of marriages. As more and more places allow same-sex marriage, people see with their own eyes that their communities don’t crumble. Instead, they become fairer and more accepting. At the end of the day, the push against marriage equality reveals a lack of empathy and imagination. By stepping beyond old prejudices, we create a society where everyone can form the families they need and deserve.
Chapter 5: Pride Parades, Kinky Gatherings, and Sexual Liberation: Celebrating Diversity Safely.
Have you ever seen images from a pride parade, where people dress in wild costumes, wave rainbow flags, and celebrate who they are without shame? Some critics watch these events and say they prove that gay people are perverse or dangerous. They find the leather outfits, the playful flirtation, and the open displays of sexuality shocking. Yet these events aren’t about corruption; they’re about freedom—freedom from fear, freedom to be honest, and freedom to share joy. Pride parades began as acts of defiance against a world that told gay people to hide. By gathering together in bright, colorful celebrations, LGBTQ individuals show that they no longer accept being treated as shameful. Instead, they claim their right to exist openly and joyfully.
Kinky fairs, where people into BDSM or other fetishes gather, might also seem strange to outsiders. But consider this: many dangerous accidents happen when people explore their fantasies secretly, without guidance or community support. By coming together in public events, those with adventurous interests can learn safety tips, talk openly, and discover how to ensure everyone involved is comfortable and consenting. In other words, these gatherings don’t spread danger—they reduce it. They turn something that might be risky when done alone or in secret into something safer and more respectful. When stigmas vanish, people feel freer to ask questions, learn, and practice their interests responsibly. Safe communities form around shared desires, making it easier to avoid tragic mistakes and misunderstandings.
Interestingly, straight people also enjoy moments when they can be more open about their sexuality. Think about Halloween: many adults use it as a time to wear outfits they’d never dare to wear in everyday life. Suddenly, it’s okay to dress in a revealing costume or playfully flirt with strangers on the street. This shows that humans—regardless of orientation—often seek spaces to let go of traditional norms and celebrate their desires. Pride parades and kinky fairs do for some what Halloween does for others: they create moments of boldness and honesty. Instead of sneering at such events, society could learn from them. They teach us to accept people’s differences and understand that sexuality can be a joyful, creative expression.
When people reject these gatherings as immoral spectacles, they miss the point. Pride isn’t about forcing anyone to adopt new sexual practices; it’s about showing the world that people have a right to be who they truly are. Similarly, BDSM fairs aren’t about imposing one group’s preferences on others; they’re about creating a space where everyone can learn how to make their chosen experiences safe, sane, and consensual. The more we accept that human sexuality is diverse and not confined to a single normal standard, the safer and happier everyone can be. Instead of fighting these celebrations, we can embrace their lessons: openness, honesty, community, and compassion. In a world where too many hide in shame, these events illuminate a path to healthier, safer sexual expression.
Chapter 6: Breaking Free from the Closet: Why Sexual Orientation Isn’t a Choice.
Imagine being told that you could choose your sexual orientation like picking a shirt from your closet. Could you simply decide to be attracted to someone entirely different from who you naturally like? Of course not. Yet some anti-gay voices insist that people choose to be gay. They argue that if it’s just a choice, then society doesn’t need to treat gay people equally—they could just switch to being straight. This is a silly argument because human sexuality is not like changing clothes. People don’t wake up and select who they’re attracted to. Love and desire come from deep inside, shaped by who we are, not by some daily decision. Trying to argue otherwise ignores everything science and experience have shown us about human nature.
One way activists highlight this absurdity is by challenging those who say being gay is a choice: if it’s so easy, prove it. Choose to change your orientation right now. They can’t. Still, some remain stubborn, using their flawed logic to justify denying equal rights to LGBTQ individuals. They suggest that since gay people decide to live that way, they deserve no legal protections. But by that logic, one could tell people of a certain religion to just not be that faith if they dislike prejudice. That’s not how personal identity works. Sexual orientation, like a deeply rooted sense of self, cannot be flipped on and off. We must see this claim for what it is: a false excuse to discriminate against people who are different.
However, there is one choice related to sexuality: whether or not to remain closeted. In the past, when the risk of being openly gay was terrifying, many chose to hide. They married people of the opposite sex, pretended to be straight, and sometimes even supported anti-gay policies to appear normal. Today, it’s easier—though not always safe—for many people to come out. Still, some remain closeted and even attack other LGBTQ individuals, probably to cover their own tracks. This hypocrisy can cause enormous harm. When someone in a position of power lashes out against gay rights while secretly searching for same-sex partners, it reveals a broken system that pressures people to lie. It shows how shame and fear can twist hearts and lead to cruelty.
Choosing to hide who you are is understandable when danger lurks around every corner, but it’s still sad. The good news is that as acceptance grows, more people feel safe to be honest and true to themselves. When you don’t have to pretend, you’re freer and kinder, both to yourself and others. The fight for LGBTQ rights is partly about creating a world where no one feels forced to hide. It’s about ensuring that people aren’t driven to deny their own identity out of fear. By stopping the lie that being gay is a choice, we clear a path toward sincerity, dignity, and freedom. Love should never be treated as a mistake you can just stop making. It’s a natural part of who we are.
Chapter 7: The Power of the LGBT Movement: Saving Lives, Stopping Bullying, and Speaking Up.
Bullying has real consequences. Over the years, LGBTQ youth have faced cruel taunts, physical abuse, and constant threats. In some heartbreaking cases, young people who couldn’t see a better future took their own lives to escape the pain. Dan Savage and his husband Terry Miller saw this happening and decided to act. They created the It Gets Better Project to reach out to struggling LGBTQ teens and tell them that life will improve. Through countless video messages, people from all walks of life assured bullied kids that the world can become more accepting. As time passes, the hurtful voices fade, and they can build a life with friends and partners who love them for who they are. The project saves lives by offering hope.
Back in the day, being openly gay was even harder, and many courageous individuals fought to change attitudes. Writers like Merle Miller spoke out against prejudice, calling out goddamn demeaning, degrading bullshit aimed at him and his friends. He was tired of being treated as less than human simply because of his sexuality. This anger turned into action, and action grew into a movement that demanded equality. Over time, as more and more people stood up, pushed back against hate, and refused to be silent, laws began to change. Attitudes shifted. Today, while bullying still exists, fewer people blindly accept the old lie that being gay is shameful or unnatural. Visibility and honesty have chipped away at the ugliness that once thrived in darkness.
Movements like this help LGBTQ kids realize they are not alone. They see role models who have survived, thrived, and become successful, loving adults. They witness entire communities marching in pride parades, demanding equal rights, and challenging old-fashioned rules. This sense of belonging can mean everything to a young person who feels isolated. By hearing others say, I’ve been there, and it got better, they learn that their current suffering isn’t forever. They discover that love and acceptance can be found, that pain can fade, and that tomorrow’s world might hold the happiness that today seems impossible. The LGBT movement not only changes laws, it changes hearts—offering empathy, support, and powerful examples that people’s differences make the world richer, not poorer.
Thanks to these efforts, bullying is taken more seriously. Schools create anti-bullying policies, teachers receive training, and caring adults do more to protect vulnerable kids. By identifying the root causes of hate and actively working against them, communities grow stronger. The process is ongoing, and there is still much work to do, but progress is real. The LGBT movement shows how people, when united by a common goal of fairness, can transform society. It encourages individuals to speak up when they see injustice, to question harmful traditions, and to support those who suffer. Ultimately, the movement reminds us that everyone deserves the chance to live without fear, to love openly, and to believe that no matter how dark today seems, tomorrow can shine brighter.
Chapter 8: Health Care Confusion and the Urgent Need for Rational Gun Control.
In theory, religious teachings encourage caring for the sick. Yet in the United States, some of the most religiously influenced states resisted the Affordable Care Act (ACA), also known as Obamacare, which aimed to help more Americans get health insurance. Critics called it socialism and fought against it, even though its origins lie partly in conservative ideas. Before the ACA, roughly 50 million Americans had no health insurance, and many died from preventable illnesses just because they couldn’t afford a doctor. The ACA tried to reduce these tragedies, but its solutions were limited. It did help millions, but it never created a perfect system. Some still can’t afford coverage, and the idea of universal health care—a basic human right in many countries—remains a bitter battle.
Now consider the United States’ relationship with guns. The nation has the highest rate of civilian gun ownership in the world, and not surprisingly, a homicide rate far above other wealthy countries. After each mass shooting, people cry out for laws that make it harder for dangerous individuals to obtain deadly firearms. Yet each time, organizations like the NRA accuse them of politicizing tragedy. By insisting that it’s too soon to talk about gun control after a shooting, they push the conversation away until another tragedy happens. This cycle repeats, leaving a system where mass shootings are alarmingly common. Despite the clear evidence that fewer guns in the wrong hands mean fewer deaths, the debate remains stuck, blocked by powerful lobbyists and frightened politicians.
When you consider the difficulty of fixing health care and gun laws, you notice a pattern similar to that facing LGBTQ rights. Just as some people stubbornly use the Bible to condemn gay people, others misuse religion or twisted political logic to fight against healthcare reforms that would save lives. Just as anti-gay activists ignore evidence that same-sex parents raise happy kids, gun enthusiasts ignore data showing that stricter gun laws reduce murders. Meanwhile, people suffer. Families go bankrupt trying to pay medical bills, communities grieve after senseless killings, and leaders struggle to find a compromise. The refusal to accept facts and work together holds America back, preventing the nation from protecting its citizens as effectively as other developed countries do.
True solutions require honest dialogue and a willingness to look at evidence, not just tradition or fear. When we compare the US to other nations, we see that universal health care systems save lives and money, and stricter gun regulations save countless people from violence. This doesn’t mean ignoring the US’s unique culture; it means evolving policies as our understanding of people’s needs grows. It’s the same kind of shift needed in LGBTQ rights: recognizing that old assumptions don’t fit our modern world. If we can embrace facts, welcome compromise, and prioritize human well-being, we can improve both our health care and our gun laws. By doing so, the nation can move closer to the compassionate, reasonable society that many Americans yearn to see.
Chapter 9: Finding the Courage to Change: Accepting That Old Lessons Need Updating.
Human societies are never frozen in time. What we considered normal decades ago might feel cruel or foolish today. This applies to our understanding of relationships, sexuality, religion, health care, and safety. As we learn more about science, psychology, and human rights, our moral compass shifts. We begin to see that forcing people to hide their sexuality is harmful, and that preventing them from marrying the ones they love is unnecessary. We discover that telling teens to fear sex, rather than teaching them how to handle it responsibly, hurts them. We learn that refusing reasonable health care reforms or ignoring gun violence solutions causes needless suffering. The past can guide us, but we must not be trapped by outdated teachings that no longer serve our best interests.
Admitting that old lessons need updating isn’t betrayal—it’s growth. Just as we once abandoned beliefs that supported slavery or denied women basic rights, we can leave behind other harmful ideas. We can recognize that not all religious texts were meant as timeless law codes, and that their authors had a limited view of the world. We can understand that a one-size-fits-all approach to love and marriage doesn’t reflect human diversity. Accepting change is challenging, because it may feel like letting go of comfort and familiarity. But it’s worth it, because it leads to fewer broken hearts, fewer lives cut short by violence, and fewer people dying from treatable illnesses. It leads to more honesty, empathy, and unity.
Real progress often begins when we question what we’ve been taught. Instead of automatically believing that certain groups are sinful or dangerous, we can ask: Why do I believe this? Instead of forcing everyone to follow old sexual rules that disregard modern knowledge, we can say: Does this still make sense? When we ask these questions, we open the door to better policies, fairer laws, and more just societies. We find that people who used to be strangers, avoided out of fear or ignorance, can become friends and allies. We discover that what once seemed frightening—such as gay marriage, sexual openness, or stronger safety regulations—can bring stability, health, and happiness. Real courage isn’t refusing to change; it’s looking honestly at reality and adjusting our views accordingly.
When we accept that our old lessons need revising, we honor the best parts of our human legacy—the parts that celebrate compassion and understanding. Holding on to harmful traditions simply because they’re old only hurts us. By letting new facts and experiences guide us, we create societies where LGBTQ individuals feel safe, where young people receive proper education, where the sick find treatment, and where the threat of random violence is lessened. Each step away from outdated thinking is a step toward a world where everyone’s well-being matters. By embracing this continuous process of growth, we acknowledge that wisdom doesn’t come from repeating old rules, but from learning how to treat each other better than ever before.
Chapter 10: Moving Forward Together: Embracing Knowledge, Respect, and Honest Communication.
In the end, all these issues—LGBTQ rights, sex education, health care, and gun control—boil down to how we treat one another and what we believe about human nature. If we trust that love is not a choice but a natural part of who people are, we remove the platform for discrimination. If we accept that young people need real knowledge about sex, not just fear tactics, we equip them for healthier lives. If we understand that health care and safety policies must adapt to real problems rather than old myths, we can save countless lives. This openness to changing our minds when presented with new facts is a sign of strength, not weakness. It shows we value truth, fairness, and the dignity of every person.
Honest communication is key. Instead of hiding behind old prejudices, we can have meaningful conversations. When someone insists that the Bible forbids gay relationships, we can ask them why they ignore other outdated rules. When critics condemn pride parades, we can explain that these celebrations help people feel safe and seen. When people resist health care reform, we can show them data that proves more insurance coverage means fewer deaths. When gun enthusiasts fear losing their rights, we can point out that smart regulations protect everyone without banning all guns. By talking calmly, listening carefully, and using evidence, we can chip away at old hostilities. Eventually, even deeply rooted fears may fade as we realize we’re all in this together.
Real solutions come from working together. We must be honest about what isn’t working—like sex education that fails students, policies that exclude LGBTQ families, health systems that leave people behind, and weak gun laws that invite tragedy. By starting from a place of empathy and reason, we can design better approaches. We can reform sex education so that it includes facts, respect, and acknowledgment of pleasure as a part of healthy life. We can fully embrace same-sex marriage and adoption, recognizing that love, not the gender of the parents, makes a family strong. We can fix health care so it doesn’t bankrupt families, and we can strengthen gun laws so ordinary people feel safer. Progress won’t be easy, but it’s possible if we stay determined.
As we move forward, let’s remember that we have the power to shape our future. The old arguments that once held society back no longer need to control us. We can recognize the flaws in using ancient texts to spread hate. We can see that forcing people to pretend their desires don’t exist helps no one. We can accept that communities thrive when everyone gets a chance at health and safety. Change doesn’t happen overnight, but every conversation, every vote, and every choice we make can push us closer to fairness. By embracing knowledge, respecting differences, and communicating honestly, we build a world where all people, no matter whom they love or how they live, can find a safe and joyful place under the sun.
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All about the Book
Explore the candid insights of sexuality, relationships, and societal norms in ‘American Savage’ by Dan Savage. This provocative work challenges conventional wisdom and promotes open-minded discussions for a more authentic life.
Dan Savage is a renowned author and LGBTQ+ activist known for his sharp wit and candid views on relationships, sex, and society, making him a significant voice in contemporary discussions.
Sex Educators, Psychologists, Sociologists, Writers, LGBTQ+ Activists
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The most important thing you can do is to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want.
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