Introduction
Summary of the book The No Contact Rule by Natalie Lue. Before we start, let’s delve into a short overview of the book. Imagine feeling stuck in the aftermath of a bad breakup, like trying to run through thick mud. You want to move forward, but thoughts of your ex keep pulling you back. You wonder if sending one little text would fix something, or if checking their social media might bring comfort. Yet each time you try to reconnect, you only end up feeling worse. There must be a better way, a path to truly heal and rebuild yourself without dragging along the pain of old memories. The idea of a no contact rule might sound tough, even harsh, but it is actually a powerful tool that helps you free your mind and heart from this messy trap. Through these chapters, you will discover why ignoring that urge to call is crucial, how to stay strong, and how, in time, you become a stronger, happier version of yourself.
Chapter 1: Uncovering the Hidden Costs of Trying to Stay Connected Even When It Hurts Deeply.
Breaking up feels like tumbling down a steep hill, scraping your knees and elbows along the way. Many people think that staying in contact with an ex-partner after a breakup might ease the pain. They believe that checking up on them, seeing their photos online, or exchanging a few harmless messages could feel comforting. Yet, this kind of contact actually causes more harm than good. It can be like poking at a wound that never gets a chance to heal. When you remain connected, even in small ways, you constantly remind yourself of what you lost. You never let your heart rest. Instead of moving forward, you get stuck in one spot, like being trapped in quicksand. The pain lingers, and the smallest interactions feel like new cuts instead of gentle remedies.
Many people go through breakups thinking it will be simple to just stay friends. But often what follows is a parade of sleepless nights and anxious days spent waiting for a reply that might never come. Instead of feeling secure, you feel confused. Your mind spins wild stories: maybe they still care, maybe they changed their mind. But usually, this is just an illusion. The more you look for these tiny hints of connection, the more your self-worth slips away. You might feel like you must settle for crumbs of attention instead of enjoying a full, healthy relationship. By holding on to weak connections, you send a message to yourself that you do not deserve better. This unhealthy pattern makes it harder to stand tall and respect your own boundaries.
Your heart might try to convince you that staying in touch will help you understand what went wrong. Perhaps if you talk to them enough, you’ll uncover some secret explanation that will bring peace. But usually, what happens is the exact opposite. Repeatedly interacting with your ex encourages you to dwell on old problems. You slip back into old fights or new disagreements. Instead of making sense of the past, you let it haunt you. This constant back and forth communication does not bring clarity. Instead, it muddies your ability to think clearly about who you are and what you truly want in life. You spend more energy trying to read between the lines of their messages than focusing on your own healing journey and personal growth.
When you keep pressing the rewind button on your breakup, you miss out on precious moments in the present. Imagine standing at a window watching a beautiful sunrise, but instead of admiring it, you turn your back to watch old home videos that only bring you tears. Life continues moving forward, offering new opportunities, friendships, hobbies, and experiences. But you are too busy checking your phone or searching their social media profiles. Every moment you spend focused on your ex is a moment you do not spend discovering your own strengths and passions. By trying to stay connected in unhealthy ways, you hold yourself back. It is like locking yourself in a room with old memories while the world outside shines and beckons you to step forward.
Chapter 2: Understanding That Keeping in Touch Creates Unseen Emotional Wounds and Blurry Boundaries.
When a relationship ends, it is meant to mark a boundary, a clear line in the sand that says, We are no longer together, and I must start caring for myself first. Yet, every time you answer a text from your ex or linger on their social media posts, you rub away this line. This makes it harder to respect what you need and deserve. Boundaries exist to protect your emotional well-being. They are like a fence keeping you safe from a snarling dog. Without a proper boundary, your ex’s feelings or mixed signals slip right back into your life, messing with your thoughts and emotions. Over time, this wears down your sense of self-worth and confuses you about what you actually want for your future.
When you do not cut off contact, you give the impression that your personal limits can be broken. Your ex, consciously or not, might realize that they can keep sliding back into your life with sweet words or silly jokes. The message you send them is: My boundaries are not serious; they can be bent or ignored. But more importantly, you send this same message to yourself. You train your mind to believe that your comfort is not as important as someone else’s attention. Over time, your self-esteem can shrink. You start feeling smaller, less important, and less capable of standing up for yourself. Instead of feeling respected, you feel used or uncertain. This is an emotional cost that grows heavier the longer you stay in touch.
Imagine trying to heal a broken bone. You need to set it correctly, let it rest, and give it time. But if you keep poking at that bone or wiggling it around too soon, it can never truly mend. Emotional healing is similar. Your heart and mind need a period of quiet, a time to adjust to living without that person who once meant so much. If you keep chatting with them, you never give yourself that quiet. Instead, you keep opening the wound. You remain stuck in the what ifs, never really moving on. Each new message or photo acts like a tiny blade that prevents the scar from fully sealing. Without a proper break, you cannot learn to stand on your own and grow stronger.
Another hidden cost of keeping in touch is how it messes with your perspective. Staying connected might trick you into thinking you are somehow over it, when in fact, you are just pushing the sadness deeper inside. This hidden sadness can color your everyday life. You might start feeling anxious or restless without understanding why. By not going no contact, you rob yourself of the chance to process your emotions naturally. Instead of letting your feelings flow and settle, you swirl them around in circles. Days, weeks, or even months pass, and you realize you still feel tangled up inside. You never truly move forward because you never truly step away. Without a clear break, you remain tied to the past, unable to embrace the present fully.
Chapter 3: Discovering if the No-Contact Path Is Truly the Right Choice Before You Dive In.
You might wonder if cutting off all contact with your ex is really the best move. It might seem extreme. But imagine that you are at a busy intersection with cars zooming by. You want to cross safely, but your ex is like a distracting voice calling your name from the sidewalk. You cannot make clear decisions when your attention is divided. Before going no contact, think honestly about your situation. Are you still clinging to the hope that your ex will come back? Do their messages make you feel better or worse? If their words, presence, or even their memory constantly pull you backward, then no contact is probably the best route to break free. If you want real healing, this might be the right choice.
Going no contact is not a punishment or a game. It is not about winning or making your ex feel bad. It is about giving yourself room to breathe and think clearly. Sometimes, the person you once cared for tries to stay connected, not because they truly love you, but because they like having you around as a safety net. Other times, you find yourself holding onto their messages because any attention, even if half-hearted, feels better than loneliness. Ask yourself: Do you deserve more than that? Should you not aim for a relationship that respects you fully instead of settling for crumbs? If you feel that staying in touch only keeps you anxious, sad, or insecure, no contact is your tool to regain your dignity.
Consider different scenarios to see if no contact makes sense. Maybe your ex broke your trust and still wants you around for emotional support, but does not want to commit. Or perhaps you broke up because you had very different values, and yet now they want to be friends as if that fixes everything. If you are always confused by their signals—if you can never tell if they are serious about reconnecting or just playing with your feelings—then going no contact provides a clear answer. It allows you to stop guessing and start focusing on yourself. It gives you silence, and in that silence, you can rebuild your self-esteem. Once you stop the back-and-forth communication, you create the conditions needed to move toward a healthier future.
When you fully consider the benefits of no contact, you see that it is more than just a break in communication. It is a break from harmful cycles, from doubts that keep eating at you, and from the never-ending puzzle of trying to figure out what your ex really wants. You free your mind, giving it the space to recover. Without constant reminders and new emotional bruises, you learn to stand taller on your own. You give yourself the gift of calm and clarity. This quiet time can feel strange at first, but it is in the quiet that you discover what truly matters to you. Without the chatter of mixed messages, you can hear your own voice clearly, guiding you toward a better and brighter life.
Chapter 4: Mapping Out a Solid No-Contact Plan So You Can Follow It Step by Step.
Once you decide to go no contact, it helps to have a plan. Picture it like preparing for a long journey. Before you start walking, you need the right shoes, a map, and some food for energy. In the same way, before you cut ties with your ex, tie up loose ends. Are there shared bills, belongings, or passwords you need to sort out? Do it now. This prevents you from making excuses later to talk to them. Be clear and honest: if you have not officially ended the relationship, do that first. Directly say that you are breaking up and that you will not be communicating afterward. Being upfront saves you from confusion later and sets the stage for a clean and respectful separation.
Next, limit their ways of reaching you. Delete their number if possible. If that feels too harsh, at least write it down on a paper you tuck away, not saved in your phone. Block them on social media so you will not be tempted to just check how they are doing. Even small steps, like turning off message alerts, can stop you from anxiously waiting for a ping. Think about places you might run into them in person and consider how to avoid those spots. The point is not to hide from the world but to reduce the chances of bumping into them accidentally. This might feel strange at first, but remember, you are doing this for your own emotional health and future happiness.
As you begin your no-contact journey, remember that feelings like guilt or worry are normal. You might feel bad blocking them. But keeping in touch out of pity only hurts both of you in the long run. If they still do not respect your boundaries, be firm and take further steps to protect yourself. Set a time frame in your mind—maybe three to six months—where you will have absolutely no communication. You can adjust this later, but having a goal helps you push through tough moments. When anniversaries or birthdays come around, be extra careful. Resist the urge to reach out. Remind yourself that you are not being cruel; you are doing what needs to be done so both of you can move on peacefully.
At first, no contact might feel like a heavy burden. But think of it as medicine that tastes bitter yet cures the illness. By following your plan, step by step, you gain strength. Every day you do not reach out, every time you overcome the temptation to ask mutual friends for details, you prove to yourself that you can do this. Over time, it becomes less about avoiding your ex and more about focusing on yourself. You start to feel proud of your self-control. Eventually, you realize that you have walked so far on this no-contact path that you can barely see the starting point anymore. This is progress. With each careful step, you become more secure, more independent, and more in tune with your own needs.
Chapter 5: Making No-Contact Work Even When You Share Parenting Responsibilities and Cannot Fully Disconnect.
For those who have children together, the idea of no contact might seem impossible. After all, you must talk about the child’s schedule, health, and activities. But you can still practice a form of limited contact to protect your healing. Think of it as a special version of no contact, where every word you speak or write to your ex is strictly about the child’s well-being. You refuse to discuss personal topics or old relationship issues. This sets a professional tone, almost like business partners who only talk about work. By doing this, you keep the emotional gates locked and avoid slipping back into harmful conversations that rekindle old feelings or arguments. Your child sees calmer interactions, which helps them feel safe and stable.
To make this approach work, agree on a clear plan with your ex. Maybe you always communicate through email or a parenting app, something that keeps discussions organized and on-topic. Before you hit send, review your words and remove anything that is not about your child’s needs. No personal jabs, no remember when you did this, no guilt trips. Keep it short, polite, and respectful. By choosing your words carefully, you avoid slipping into personal drama. Your goal is to create a routine that feels predictable and calm. Over time, this pattern helps both of you heal, even if you do not realize it at first. Your ex might learn to respect your boundaries because you show, through consistent actions, that you mean what you say.
While caring for your child, remember not to drag them into adult conflicts. If you feel frustrated by your ex’s tone or attitude, handle that emotion separately. Talk to a friend, a therapist, or write it down in a private journal. Never bad-mouth your ex in front of your child, and never use your child as a messenger to deliver messages between you and your ex. Your child deserves a peaceful environment, one where they are loved by both parents without feeling caught in the middle. By keeping things focused on their needs, you not only protect your healing process but also protect your child’s emotional security. In this way, you can still practice a version of no contact that allows everyone to move forward.
Over time, this respectful, child-focused communication can shape a healthier co-parenting relationship. The emotional wounds from the breakup will have a chance to heal because you are not constantly reopening them. You are not searching for hidden meanings or hoping for an emotional reconnection. Instead, you are putting all your energy into becoming a stable, reliable parent who can stand firmly on their own two feet. This approach can inspire you. It shows you that even in complicated situations, you can maintain your boundaries and keep your self-respect. Eventually, when you look back, you might feel proud that you managed to heal while still caring for your child. You have learned a crucial lesson: even when completely no contact is not possible, healthier boundaries are.
Chapter 6: Breaking Free from Repeated Arguments and Toxic Cycles by Saying No More.
Think about a messy pattern you and your ex may have repeated many times. Maybe it was constant arguments, threats to leave, promises to change that never got fulfilled, and tears that only led back to more conflict. Such routines are like circles—you keep going around and around without finding an exit. By going no contact, you finally step out of the circle. Without new fights or forced apologies, there is no reason to continue that harmful dance. It is like turning off a noisy radio that kept blasting the same hurtful tune. Your silence speaks volumes: you are no longer interested in playing the old roles. You have chosen to act differently, and that change in your behavior breaks the unhealthy cycle for good.
Why do these toxic patterns continue for so long? Because both people learn how to push each other’s buttons. One raises their voice, the other responds with tears, and so on. Over time, these responses become automatic, almost like a script. You know exactly what to say to make the other person react. By cutting off contact, you throw the script away. Now, there can be no more rehearsed dialogues, no more predictable breakdowns. Suddenly, the old habits have nowhere to live. Your ex might try to reach out and provoke you, expecting the usual reaction. But if you do not respond, or if you keep silent, they realize the old dance floor is empty. Without your participation, the pattern crumbles and eventually disappears.
When you succeed in breaking these patterns, something amazing happens. You get a chance to replace old habits with healthier ones. Instead of spending hours trying to decode mixed messages, you have time to explore new hobbies or strengthen friendships that bring real value to your life. Instead of waking up worried about what your ex might say or do, you wake up feeling lighter, with more room in your mind and heart. Each day of no contact makes it clearer that you deserve peace. This peace might feel strange at first, but it is a sign that you are finally stepping into a healthier way of living. You feel a growing sense of pride as you prove that you can resist old traps and stand firm.
Sure, there may be moments when you remember those old fights and feel a tug in your chest. The difference now is that you are not adding new stories or new chapters to that old argument. It is frozen in the past, and you have the power to leave it there. By not re-engaging, you show yourself that you are capable of changing your future. Those toxic cycles no longer define you. You can think back on them and realize, I do not do that anymore. This shift helps you see that people can learn from experience. You have taken a step beyond pain, beyond confusion. Through no contact, you break free and claim the right to build healthier communication patterns with people who truly respect you.
Chapter 7: Preparing for the Emotional Storm When Feelings Come Rushing In Full Force.
No contact is not a magic trick that instantly makes you feel better. In fact, in the early weeks, you might feel more pain than ever. Without your ex’s messages or photos, you have no distractions from the heartbreak. Tears might fall more often, your heart might ache, and you could wonder if you made the right choice. But think of this as clearing out a clogged pipe. At first, all the dirty water and muck rush through, making a mess. After a while, though, the flow becomes clean and steady. By allowing yourself to feel your feelings now, you help ensure that you do not carry this pain forever. These tough emotions are a sign that you are beginning to process and accept reality.
During this emotional storm, you might replay old conversations in your head, laugh at happy memories, or grow angry over how things ended. This is normal. Your mind is trying to make sense of what happened, and since you are not reaching out to your ex for a fix, you must rely on yourself to handle it. Surround yourself with supportive friends who listen without judgment. Watch movies that make you laugh, take long walks in nature, or try writing down how you feel. Allowing these emotions to surface is part of healing. If you pretend that everything is fine when it’s not, you only push the pain deeper. Facing it head-on helps you eventually move beyond the sadness and into a place of understanding.
As the weeks turn into months, you will move through stages of grief similar to losing something precious. You may start in denial, convincing yourself that maybe there is still a chance for you two. Then come anger, bargaining, and possibly sadness strong enough to keep you in bed for a few days. But after feeling it all, you inch closer to acceptance. Acceptance is when you wake up one morning realizing that you survived. You lived through the heartbreak. The world did not end. You may still feel a pinch of sadness now and then, but it does not knock you to the ground anymore. It becomes a memory rather than a fresh wound. This is the strength you gain from not breaking no contact.
Eventually, you discover that the heavy clouds of sadness can part, revealing clear skies. Acceptance arrives when you understand that the relationship, in its old form, is gone, and that this is okay. You do not need to chase after a ghost. Instead, you value yourself enough to cherish the lessons learned. Perhaps you learned how to set boundaries or discovered personal interests you had ignored before. These lessons are priceless. By weathering the emotional storm, you prove to yourself that you have the courage to face pain without running back to familiar but harmful patterns. This emotional journey might be the hardest part, but it is also the path to freedom. Once you reach acceptance, you see how far you have come.
Chapter 8: Creating Strong Defenses and Clever Tricks to Avoid Breaking the No-Contact Pact.
Staying no contact is like following a strict exercise plan. Knowing it will make you stronger does not stop the urge to skip a workout sometimes. In the same way, even though you know no contact is good for your healing, you might still feel tempted to check your ex’s social media or send them a message. To stop yourself, try small strategies. For example, take it one day at a time. Promise yourself, I will not contact them today. Tomorrow, say the same thing. Also, remove triggers—delete photos, old texts, and anything that reminds you of your ex. Change your habits. If you always scrolled their profile late at night, find a new bedtime routine, like reading a book or doing a quick workout.
Another helpful trick is to keep a journal of reasons why you must stay no contact. Write down all the hurtful things that happened, the confusing messages, and the painful moments. When you feel weak, read these reminders. They can be like a flashlight guiding you away from the dark corners of old habits. You can also lean on friends who support your decision. Tell a trusted friend, If I feel like calling my ex, I will text you instead. Your friend can remind you why you started this journey. The idea is to build safety nets that catch you before you fall back into old patterns. Each time you resist temptation, you strengthen the idea that you can survive and thrive without returning to that relationship.
If you find yourself remembering only the good times, try balancing those memories. Remind yourself of moments when you felt neglected, disrespected, or misunderstood. Post sticky notes around your room with simple reminders: They forgot my birthday, They put me down in front of friends, or They refused to communicate clearly. These notes are not meant to fuel hatred. They are there to keep you grounded in reality. By forcing yourself to remember the whole truth, not just the glossy highlights, you make it less tempting to reach out. It becomes clearer that you deserve better than a relationship that left you feeling small. With each moment of honesty, you gain control over your emotions and reinforce the boundary that no contact sets in place.
Avoid rushing into a new romance just to distract yourself. A rebound might make you remember your ex even more, comparing the two, or wondering if you made a mistake. Give yourself time to be alone, to adjust, and to learn how to enjoy your own company. Also, consider cutting down on alcohol or activities that lower your self-control. A few drinks could make texting your ex seem like a brilliant idea when it is not. By staying levelheaded and keeping your emotions in check, you stay true to your goal. Over time, these defenses become less necessary because you get used to living without your ex’s presence. What was once a struggle becomes natural. You prove to yourself that you can handle life on your own terms.
Chapter 9: Rebuilding Your Social World and Finding Joy Beyond the Shadows of Your Ex.
Once the initial sting fades, you will notice space opening up in your life. Time that you once spent wondering about your ex or decoding their messages can now go towards activities that lift you up. Think of it as rearranging a room: now that the old furniture is gone, you can decorate it to match your own style. Look for interests you set aside during the relationship. Maybe you used to love painting, cycling, or learning about astronomy. Revisit those hobbies. Or try something completely new. Join a club or group for people who enjoy something you find interesting—maybe it’s a local writing group, a hiking club, or a cooking class. There is a world of new faces and fresh experiences waiting for you.
Reconnecting with old friends can remind you of who you were before this painful breakup. Friends who saw you at your best might help you remember that you still carry that person inside you. It may also be time to make new connections. If your social circle was heavily tied to your ex’s family and friends, it might feel awkward to stay close to them. This is your chance to broaden your horizons and meet new people who appreciate you for who you are, not who you were in that past relationship. Step out with confidence, even if you feel shy at first. The more you interact with fresh faces, the more you will realize you have so much to offer as an individual.
If you feel nervous about trying new activities alone, start small. Attend a community art show or join an online group chat where people discuss a topic you enjoy. Slowly, you build new friendships. Each time you take a step forward, you are proving that you can shape your life in a way that reflects your true passions. Over time, you create a supportive network that does not revolve around your ex. These people meet you as you are now, not as part of a couple. This helps you grow more comfortable in your own skin. You discover that you can shine without relying on someone else. Soon, you will find that your social life feels richer and more genuine than ever before.
As you continue to rebuild your social world, you might see that life can still be exciting, unpredictable, and fulfilling without your ex in it. The breakup does not define you. It was just one chapter in your story, not the entire book. Each new person you meet and each new interest you explore are pages you add to your personal narrative. Over time, you feel proud of yourself for leaving behind something that did not serve you well. Instead of standing in your ex’s shadow, you feel the warm sunlight of a future filled with possibilities. The loneliness you once feared becomes a space where you can grow stronger, kinder to yourself, and more adventurous in how you engage with the world around you.
Chapter 10: Building a Stronger Sense of Self and Setting Boundaries That Protect Your Heart.
No contact is not just about pushing someone out; it is also about inviting yourself in. Before this, you might have been so busy thinking about your ex that you forgot to think about what you truly need. Now, you have time to ask yourself: What makes me happy? What does respect look like in a relationship? You learn to recognize what is healthy and what is not. Setting boundaries becomes second nature. You no longer jump at every text message or put your needs aside just to please someone else. Boundaries are like invisible shields. They do not keep everyone away; they simply protect what is precious inside you, making sure only kind, genuine people can get close enough to influence your emotions.
As you become more comfortable with who you are, you realize that your worth never depended on your ex’s opinion or presence. You start treating yourself with the kindness you once sought from others. You might create a self-care routine—morning journaling, afternoon walks, or evening relaxation with a favorite book. By doing this, you show yourself that you are worth nurturing. Over time, you trust your own decisions more. You do not feel the need to apologize for wanting space or for saying no to something that makes you uneasy. Your self-esteem grows, and with it, your ability to choose healthier relationships in the future. This is what true healing looks like: not just feeling less pain, but feeling more confident in your own skin.
Once your boundaries are clearly defined, future relationships become less terrifying. You know what you will no longer tolerate. You learn that if a new person disrespects you or tries to blur those boundaries, you can walk away without feeling guilty. This does not mean you never take risks again—relationships always involve risk—but now you enter them with open eyes. You can open your heart without throwing away your power. The confidence you build now is like a solid foundation under your feet. It allows you to explore new connections without fear that you will lose yourself in the process. You become your own guardian, fully capable of caring for your needs, beliefs, and feelings as you move forward in life.
With each passing day of no contact, you have proved that you can stand firm when it matters. This changes the way you see yourself. You begin to trust your strength and judgment. When you look back, you see someone who dared to face heartbreak and did not let it consume them. Instead, you turned it into fuel for growth. This self-awareness and strength become part of who you are. They guide you in making better choices and create a sense of pride and peace. The quiet you once feared now feels like a friend, allowing you to hear your own voice clearly. That voice says: You deserve respect, happiness, and love that does not hurt. And you finally believe it.
Chapter 11: Embracing New Love Opportunities Without Losing the Independent, Confident You That Emerged.
After spending time without your ex, you stand at a new starting line. The past relationship no longer weighs on your mind every day. The silence you kept has given you space to heal and figure out who you are. Now, you might feel ready to open your heart again. But this time, you enter the dating world as a wiser person. You are more careful about whom you let in. You are quicker to speak up if something feels off. This new strength does not make you hard or unloving. Instead, it helps you create healthier connections. You can enjoy getting to know someone without feeling you need to prove your worth. Your worth is already clear to you, and that changes everything.
When someone new comes into your life, you no longer feel desperate to hold on. You learned that you can survive heartbreak, so there is less fear of being alone. Instead of clinging, you enjoy sharing moments. Instead of feeling incomplete, you feel whole, inviting someone to join your life rather than fill a void. This shift makes your interactions more genuine. It also makes it easier to spot red flags and walk away when needed. You trust your instincts more. If someone tries to cross your boundaries, you remember how hard you worked to build them and refuse to compromise. This self-respect acts like a magnet, attracting people who appreciate you as you are, and deterring those who would take advantage.
You have come a long way from that person who felt trapped by thoughts of an ex. Now, you see that relationship as a lesson. It taught you what does not work and encouraged you to find what does. Your new relationships will not be perfect because no relationship ever is. There will still be disagreements and tough conversations. But now, when problems arise, you handle them with honesty and clarity. You do not rely on unhealthy contact patterns or drama. Instead, you communicate openly. If something cannot be fixed, you know how to leave before things turn toxic. Your life is no longer defined by that old heartbreak. Instead, it is defined by your growth and your courage in facing the unknown.
As you continue moving forward, do not forget how strong and determined you have become. You survived the sadness, the anger, the lonely nights. You showed yourself that you can resist temptation and build a life that truly reflects your values. The no-contact rule was not just a breakup strategy; it was a key that unlocked your potential. Now, you can approach future relationships feeling free and self-assured, knowing you can protect your heart and still open it up when the right person comes along. You carry these lessons with you, shaping a brighter, calmer path ahead. The world is open to you now, and you face it not as someone wounded, but as someone who knows their own worth.
All about the Book
Discover the transformative power of The No Contact Rule by Natalie Lue. This essential guide empowers individuals to reclaim their emotional health after breakups through self-reflection and independence, fostering healing and personal growth.
Natalie Lue is a renowned author and relationship expert, dedicated to helping people break unhealthy patterns and cultivate fulfilling connections through her insightful and practical advice.
Psychologists, Relationship Coaches, Life Coaches, Counselors, Social Workers
Self-Improvement, Journaling, Meditation, Therapy, Reading Relationships Literature
Emotional Dependency, Healing After Breakups, Setting Boundaries, Self-Esteem Problems
Your boundaries are your way of saying, ‘I value myself and I will protect my heart.’
Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, John Mayer
Best Self-Help Book 2021, Readers’ Choice Award 2022, Gold Medal for Emotional Wellness 2023
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